Author: Linda Bilodeau

I’ve grappled with hearing loss since 1978. Through it all, I’ve faced periods of denial, acceptance, curiosity, trust and hope. But more often than not, I’ve felt annoyed, angry and frightened. I’ve encountered despair, loneliness and envy. I’ve experienced panic attacks. I’ve met understanding people, kind souls who helped me a great deal and others who thought I had nothing short of an invisible plague.

As a way of coming to terms with my hearing loss, I’ve decided to put my feelings about my disability down on paper. My hope is to better understand myself and perhaps you’ll find a little something in my meanderings that will help you, too.

Hearing Loss – Getting By With A Little Help

We were invited to dinner at friend’s house the other night. Our job was to bring the wine. We were treated to a lovely salmon dinner, a corn and red pepper salad with lime dressing, a tomato salad and ice cream and cookies for desert. Delightful food, good friends, some fine wine, what a lovely… Read more »

Hearing Loss – The Visible You!

How many people know about your hearing loss? Your family? Friends? You’re primary care doctor? Your dentist? When people call you on the phone, do you tell them you have trouble hearing?  Let’s face it, most of us with hearing issues are loathed to admit we have a problem. Everyone wants to think they are… Read more »

Forget Me Not – My Hearing Aids!

Last week, I was part way through my morning walk when I realized I had forgotten to put in my hearing aids. You’d think that a woman who can’t hear might remember to put in her aids, but the truth is, I get distracted and left the house without them. At first, I didn’t notice.… Read more »

Who Are You – as a Hearing Loss Person?

Life presents challenges for those dealing with hearing loss. Think of a typical day and how frequently you communicate with others. I speak with my doctor, car repair person, grocery store clerk, and my pharmacist. There are conversations with my husband and friends as well as my family. I schedule appointments, make reservations, and get… Read more »